:: orochinagi

Ok well i saw a topic that was talking about love issues... so.. i took the chance to do the same thing =P


Ok.. well this girl that we shall call "Banana" was my gf for like a 1 year and a half.... we had to break a part because i traveled for an undetermined amount of time to another state of Mexico.

So 4 months have passed and seven days ago she met this guy at a club she f#cking kissed the guy that same day because she was "bored and she wanted someone to look after her for that night".... she thought that when the night was over she would forget everything about this guy but SURPRISE! the guy was no dumbass so he somehow got his phone number... and now he calls her to take her out to clubs...(5 times in seven days! FUCK!)

They have kissed more than one time....

I asked her if she "stills" feel something for me... and she says "i dont know" , "right now im confused" why? because im not with her... she guards herself behind the argument " You are not here... and we dont know when are you coming back to the city..."

F#CK!!

The problem is... i do feel love for her... =S.... and i probably will return in 2 more months.... @_@

so what should i do?...

The dunut option is quite interesting..... ^_^

Women have a problem with words. When they say "i'm confused", they wanna say "i feel alone". And if they feel alone that means they're welcome to company.... no matter if it's you or the other "persistent but there" guy.

Mark your territory. Go, see her, talk her, kiss her. Pee the other guy.

you know the deal, gunny waits for everyone to chip in before ending with big jerry springer speech.

When there's no way out, the only way out is to give in.

Fuck her?! Whats the point you guys were broken up, its not like you guys are married. I mean if she wasnt willing to wait then kick that Bananna to the curve.
Yeah I know it hurts but you dont want to look like a dumbass when you go up there trying to be all "I want you back and I blah blah blah for you"

I asked her if she "stills" feel something for me... and she says "i dont know" , "right now im confused" why? because im not with her... she guards herself behind the argument " You are not here... and we dont know when are you coming back to the city..."

Ok come on seriously if she doesnt know then I dont think you should even try to get with her. Man she is just being selfish from what Im seeing in your message.
But hey some us are more hard headed than others so it takes more pain in your heart for your brain to resgister "Hey this girl doesnt want me I should just stop pursuing so I dont look like a stalker/psycho"
So thats my advice for the moment, dont get me wrong if you think its a good idea to see her and talk it over with her in person then you should.

Dang dude, you tend to get some "interesting" girl problems.

Anyway, she might be trying gulit trip you into doing what she wants to do. She does have another guy in the wings. Should really ask yourself, is she in love with me or she's just stringing you along.

Vastago wrote:
Ok.. well this girl that we shall call "Banana"

ROFLMAO <3 Vastago

Vote end it. She's just using the excuse of you not being there to fuck other guys. Calling her banana is suitable 'cos she's like a banana skin for your life.

Find another. $5 says she really does feel a little for you, but who doesn't have feelings after a years and a half relationship? Clearly she doesn't let that bother her. Move on, unless you really wan to be with someone who uses the excuse that they're confused.

go down, spy on them, watch them kiss, hear your heart crack in two, walk up to them, offer the guy a beer, pat him on the back and wish him good luck, *stone cold stunner!!!*, tell the girl you're sorry and just got carried away and she's free to do what she likes, then

STONE COLD STUNNER!!!!!!!!

good god allmighty, stone cold stunnered!

vastago, u go back to her after all she's done to u, then get ready to be trampled on and taken advantage of for the rest of ur time with her. when ur in a long D relationship with an undetermined time of long D, things are different, it's much more fragile. if something like this happens, then its just time to break it off. i know u want to stay with her and hope all the problems go away, but u cant turn back time, can u really go back with her after knowing how much she reciprocates ur love? ur gonna date a few girls in ur time, and of course ur gonna love all of em, so this one isnt the last girl. leave her, flat and simply put, she's no good. u'll get over her sooner, since ur far away from her.

vote: [strike]nail the little girl again, then snipe a dog[/strike] donut & double homicide

Hermano, mándala a la gaver

Cuando una mujer sale con jaladas así, es que de plano no te conviene volver con ella. Si ella te hubiera amado de verdad, no habría salido con esas ridiculeces.

Ya, no te claves, borrón y cuenta nueva. Y te digo todo lo anterior por experiencia.

Gunsmith wrote:go down, spy on them, watch them kiss, hear your heart crack in two, walk up to them, offer the guy a beer, pat him on the back and wish him good luck, *stone cold stunner!!!*, tell the girl you're sorry and just got carried away and she's free to do what she likes, then

STONE COLD STUNNER!!!!!!!!

Nice words, but I don't think that Vastago has what it takes to topple the challenge.
Pretty easy to talk. I get a lot of "good" ideas when it comes to girls, yet I lack the ease and that distinguish "out-going" feel to put them to use.

Well the news are the long distance with end in 1 month....

F#CK!

i liked gunnys advice... i guess ill take that one...

I really dont know why.. but i "still" want to talk to her and if for some reason she feels something for me then i would take the chance to see what can i do... (and probably have a vengeance...) but if its all over then i guess i would have close that relationship...

I hate love -_-....

Right now im not talking to "Banana" i dont know if she is gonna talk to me (by msn or cellphone).... i guess im really in love (or obsessed XD) with her =S the thruth is i really dig her... @_@

Are you actually going to be back? You said two months, now you say it's one month? Are you going to go away again?

is this what you're like normally? i.e. a loose cannon / unreliable / unsettled / unstable ??

She said she didn't know when you would be back.

is this is actually your fault?

in any case, granma gunny has plenty of advice to give, just make sure you know all wrestling moves